6. NO MEANS NO. If you want to say No, then say it like you mean it! With a strong voice and loudly if you need to. Don’t say it like you’re sorry. Don’t say it with a smile. Don’t say it in a sexy whisper. Be assertive. Be empowered. Never feel you have to give consent to anyone. For any reason. You have the right to say No at any time. It’s always your choice. Sex with consent is sexy. Sex without consent is rape. Respect yourself. Respect your partner.