26. oK WITH YOU? Consent to have sex means both partners freely agreeing to have sex. Consent should always be voluntary, enthusiastic and given without pressure, fear or intimidation. Be sure you want him as much as he wants you. Ask yourself first, “Is this OK with me?” It’s always your choice. Know your rights. And stand up for them. Sex with consent is sexy. Sex without consent is rape. Respect yourself. Respect your partner.